We all wake up to different kind of dreams; some are petrifying where as some leave us mystified.
I have been having these on and off recurring dreams about this guy whom I have met at a workplace. Lets call him the-‘Mystery man’.
I might have just seen a glance of him barely twice or thrice and we have never even spoken a word to each other.
A couple of months back I woke up to my typical droning routine of awakening and getting ready to work ,and I happen to recollect that I had a dream about the ‘Mystery man’. I was surrounded with a lot of gloominess, negative vibes and just did not feel good about it.
I’ve come across people saying that, when you happen to think about a person too frequently or just before you are ready to sleep, or even when you go through a particular phase/situation you tend to dream similar instances. But it my case, this wasn’t true. Neither was I thinking about him , nor was I going through a similar instance.
This happened to me a couple of times and I felt that this wasn’t just another dream that happened to me. It felt bizarre. There was definitely something cynical and exploratory behind these recurring trances. Each time I had a dream about the Mystery Man I experienced the same vibes that left me bewildered.
The repetitive trances made me so curious and uneasy that I decided to take a chance and explore. Through a mutual contact of ours I got introduced to him and slowly we started shooting the breeze.
Based on my interactions with him I learned that he was a closed book, reserved and invincible. This led to me having a hard time getting to know the real him.
Slowly and gradually he started opening up about himself. I felt that I’ve unlocked the first level into finding the answers to my questions. Through his confessions I understood that he was going through a very pathetic phase of life and had a negative approach towards it which led him to some wrong doings. He was almost a victim of depression. And then I started connecting the dots. The vibes that I experienced each time after the dream was in reality encountered by him. Having said many things about himself he still left behind a lot of puzzles unsolved . He always created this invisible wall between us that made things complex for me in unlocking further. It was a close yet-so-far kind of a situation.
Eventually are conversations started thinning down and went down to zero. He had vanished away. But this did not stop those recurring trances. I still dreamed about him.
About 2-3 months ago i had met our mutual contact at a coffee shop and i confided my feelings and narrated the entire story to him. He was left shocked. He pointed out to me that the first time when i happened to inquire about the ‘Mystery Man’ he was indeed going through a terrible phase.
A lot of questions are still haunting me.Whom do i ask? The one to whom i could have disappeared out of blue.Sometimes I sit and wonder why me? Why do I keep dreaming about him ? I don’t even know him. Is this some kind of a telepathic connection?
Is this a mere coincidence or am I over thinking?
I feel guilty about the fact that I could not be of any use to him. Someday I hope I would get a chance to confess to him about the dreams. Or if he just happens to read this post?-Nothing better!
Looking forward to hearing from you guys about any similar experiences 🙂 Please share your views. 🙂